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This past week, while people were celebrating (or not celebrating) Valentine’s Day, an oddly-coupled pair of news items emerged pertaining to research on happiness.
A multi-country survey concluded that partners are the main source of happiness: nearly two-thirds of couples say their partner is the most important source of happiness in their lives. However, a study in New Zealand found that widows and widowers are among the happiest people who have tied the knot (particularly women). So, what are to conclude from this? Are people happy because of their spouses? Or, are people happier after their spouses die?
The trick is in how people define happiness to begin with. When someone asks you, “How happy are you, on a scale of 1-10?” your answer will depend on at least three things:
1) Mood. Have you had a good week? A good day?
2) Physical state. Are you tired? Are you in pain? Are you hungry? (A 2011 study showed that whether or not a judge is hungry affects court rulings. I sympathize: I am much more forgiving towards others when my belly’s full.)
3) Definition of happiness. What do you think happiness is? If you think that happiness means being in a committed marriage, then that’s the yardstick that you will measure by when someone asks you, “How happy are you?” If you think that happiness means having freedom to do what you want, then you’ll think about how much autonomy you have. If you think that happiness is having fulfilled obligations to others, then you’ll think about whether you’ve done that. If you think happiness is having enough food to eat, you’ll think about whether you have had enough to survive. As you assess your own happiness, it’s inevitably against some standard of what you think happiness consists of.
So, the number that you end up giving to the survey taker (“Um, a 7? A 5?”) really depends on how you define happiness in the first place.
We know that definitions of happiness can be rather different. Georgetown sociologist Jose Casanova has observed some of these differences: In American life, the pursuit of happiness is thought as an individual “pursuit”—defined as something that is the moral duty of each individual to pursue actively. In contrast, Immanuel Kant speaks of “making ourselves worthy of happiness”—as if happiness is not something we attain or achieve, but rather a gift we receive. Then, there’s also Zhuangzi (Chuang Tzu) and his idea that “Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness.”